Look Back: Top 5 Coffee Moments™

I just brewed a pour over coffee, and as I’m enjoying it, I thought I’d look back on one of my favorite blog posts from back in 2015. I’ll probably list some new moments one of these days, since there’s been quite a few in the last two years.

But what about all of you? What are your top Coffee Moments?™

Nicholas Conley's mysterious coffee obsession.

Before we begin, I should probably answer the obvious question:  what in Sam Hill are these so-called Coffee Moments™?

And to that, my reply is this: Coffee Moments™ are those special experiences, those memorable stories from our past, that will always contain the line “and as it all happened, I was drinking a cup of coffee.”

Coffee Moments™ can be thrilling, sentimental, scary and/or victorious.  Maybe your favorite Coffee Moment™ was sitting in that diner with your future spouse, on your first date.  Maybe it was the coffee you took with you to that interview where you finally landed your dream job.  Maybe it was the coffee you drank when you finally got into the college you most wanted to get into.  Perhaps it was even a cup you sipped while fixing up your first car.

Coffee Moments™ can be anything, to anyone, as long as these moments contain…

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My Writing Space

As any creative professional knows, the zone where you create things is your castle. Some people have roaming workstations, while others need a specific spot at a specific time, but there’s always a place where the magic happens — whether it’s a physical location, a psychological one, or (most likely) both. It’s the same for all forms of creative passion: we all have our desks, our studios, our work tables, or whatever else we may need.

For me, while I do enjoy getting some work done in local coffee shops every so often, the primary place where the writing happens is in my office, at home. Whenever I sit down here, as I am now, I feel a sense of purpose, belonging, a focus. With a mug of coffee in hand, I feel ready to conquer the next manuscript before me.

Longtime readers will recognize little touches like the Spider-Man poster and the coffee mug; the desk is never complete without that mug there and filled with hot coffee, as you might imagine. The dinosaur is an old childhood relic that reminds me of my father, and which has been on my desk for over 10 years. It has taken on increasing importance over the years, as childhood relics tend to do. As for those “slugs” roaming around the plant… well, those are the marvelous creation of my endlessly creative wife Veronica, and readers of Pale Highway will know why they’re there.

But let’s not stop with me. What about you guys? What sort of creative workstation/s do you have? Let’s hear about ’em!

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The “Von Doom” Fan Film Reveals the Doctor Doom We’ve All Been Waiting for

Superhero films may have taken over the multiplex, and characters both A-list and B-list may have become household names, but there’s arguably one major Marvel Comics character whose legacy on film has been mistreated more than any other: Victor Von Doom, better known by the title Doctor Doom.

Famous Marvel Comics writer Stan Lee, who co-created almost all of the Marvel Universe, has long said that Doctor Doom is his favorite villain. While the Joker has catapulted to the #1 spot on most supervillain lists thanks to a long line of fantastic film and animated adaptations, Doctor Doom is a character who has long been held by many comic book enthusiasts as the greatest comic book supervillain of all time. Doom is a complex figure whose mythology combines science fiction and sorcery; he’s a vain man pained by a dark past, a tortured soul who believes himself to be the hero, believes that he could save the world if only everyone accepted him as their leader. His story is epic, tragic, one of the most developed in all of comics.

What Doom is not, and never has been, is the obnoxious, greedy businessman that he was portrayed as in the 2005 Fantastic Four movie, or whatever weird stuff they were trying to do with him in the 2015 reboot. While villains like Magneto and Loki have risen to prominence due to excellent film adaptations, there has never been a proper, faithful cinematic depiction of Doctor Doom.

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Well, until now. Thanks to filmmaker Ivan Kander, there is now a fan film named Von Doom available online, that does for Doom what 20th Century Fox has failed to do. Gritty, epic, and faithful to the comics, Von Doom may be only 14 minutes, but it’s the best 14 minutes that Doom has ever had on film. Using time travel as a plot device, it tells the story of Doom’s tragic origins, as a young boy in the small Eastern European country of Latveria, and his young adult self’s attempt to combine magic and science in an effort to change the past. Don’t be wary of the fact that it’s a fan film, either: like Truth in Journalism, the Venom fan-film that I reviewed back in 2013, this is quality stuff. But don’t just take my word for it: check it out below.

(And after you do, continue reading my thoughts, right below the video!)

Now, this film isn’t perfect. It’s too short to get as deep as I’d love for it to,  and the budget is lower than a studio production would be. But what really shines here is that Ivan Kander really understands Doom’s personality, really gets what makes the character iconic, and even came up with a clever way to frame Doom’s story in a way that could fit three periods of his life within such a short runtime.

I’d love to see what Ivan Kander could come up with for a full length studio production, but even in the absence of that, Von Doom contains a lot of lessons that 20th Century Fox should pay attention to, if they ever want to utilize one of their biggest properties in a way that will not only befit the character’s legacy, but also get fans into theaters. To me, these are the biggest takeaways from Von Doom, and how it could influence future films:

1. The Origin Really, Really Matters

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Both Fantastic Four franchises to date have completely ignored Victor Von Doom’s comic book back story, and both have also totally destroyed the character as a result.  That’s because Doom’s origins aren’t some throwaway reference, and tying them to the Fantastic Four’s origins is a mistake. Victor Von Doom’s childhood tragedies are as important to his character development as Magneto’s Holocaust origins are to him, and if you tamper with the story, you lose the character.

Doom’s back story is epic in scope. You can’t just pay lip service to Latveria and expect fans to be happy, because the character is Latveria. Victor Von Doom began as a poor boy in a poverty-stricken country, fled to the United States, became a brilliant scientist, and then came home as a revolutionary, ready to overthrow the authoritarian government that had enslaved and brutalized his people. Now, this doesn’t change the fact that Von Doom is also an authoritarian himself — the people of Latveria might be safe beneath his rule, but they certainly aren’t free — however, the complexity here is what makes the character interesting.

You Need Science AND Magic to Make a Proper Doctor Doom

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Doctor Doom, the armored figure that Victor Von Doom is destined to become, might seem at first like a purely science fiction character. He’s a brilliant scientist, he attacks his opponents with armies of robots, he uses life model decoys. But what Von Doom really gets right, from the very beginning, is that Doctor Doom’s interest and skills in the mystical arts are also a huge component of the character.

Some of Doctor Doom’s best stories involve him relying purely on magic, and he’s listed as one of the most powerful sorcerers in the Marvel Universe. Sure, the whole magic thing doesn’t fit into the wacky sci-fi high jinks that define the Fantastic Four, but there’s a solution for that…

Make Doom the Protagonist of His Own Film

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Seriously, if there’s anything that the Von Doom short film proves, it’s this: Doctor Doom works better as a protagonist, instead of being squeezed into a Fantastic Four movie. That doesn’t mean he’s a hero, but he thinks he’s a hero, and a character as complex as Doom deserves center stage.

The bad writing that Doctor Doom has suffered from in the Fantastic Four movies is at least partially because both films have unsuccessfully tried to tie Doom into the Four’s origin story, and it’s a bad fit. While Doom is linked to Reed Richards, and despises him, much of his actual character arc is largely independent of those four blue-costumed heroes. Doom has gotten into blows with most of Marvel’s heroes, but those battles aren’t really his focus. In the grander scheme of the Marvel Universe, he’s a well known dictator who has diplomatic immunity when he visits other countries, and thus can’t be arrested. He’s not just a foil for the heroes.

No, Doctor Doom deserves his own movie. A Doctor Doom film could tell the story of Victor Von Doom’s rise, fall, and subsequent rise. It could tell the story of his exile from Latveria, his mastery of science and magic, and then his return as a man in a metal mask. Again, Doom can be the protagonist without being a hero. A film that focused on Doom, and only on Doom, could have an epic narrative similar to Batman Begins.

If the film needs a villain, then Ivan Kander’s Von Doom proposes a terrific solution, through the use of time travel: use Victor as both the hero and the villain. Pit the younger Victor against the older Doctor Doom. There are lots of ways to make this work, and the Fantastic Four aren’t necessary for it. They can have their own new reboot — preferably one which has them battle against, say, the Mole Man —  and Doom can meet up with them in a sequel, if need be. But not yet.

 Get the Personality Right

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And finally, here’s another big one. Doom’s personality has to be right. He’s not a psychopath, not a cocky businessman who tells dumb jokes, none of that. The character as depicted in Von Doom is Doom as he should be.

Again, Doom doesn’t see himself as a villain. As far as he’s concerned, he’s the hero of the story, and he’s in a constant struggle to do the right thing, to take the path that he believes will make the world a better place. Doom has flaws, but insanity isn’t one of them. He’s arrogant, vain, and haughty. But he’s also a character that viewers should, at least on some level, want to root for — a character whom we should be saddened by when he starts making decisions that we know to be immoral, even if he is too stubborn to see it.

A solo Doctor Doom movie is a blockbuster success waiting to happen, and if the studios ever decide to pursue it, then Von Doom should be their primary inspiration.

MBTI Typology

Yes, a reblog! I was discussing these matters the other day at dinner, and it occurred to me that since I posted this way back in 2014(!), there are now lots of new faces hanging around here at Writings, Readings, and Coffee Addictions. Hard to believe that the blog is now on its fifth year running, since I first posted here in 2013, but that’s another subject altogether.

So let’s hear it, everyone! What type are you?

As stated in the original post, I’m an INFJ.

Over the last few years, I’ve developed an enormous fascination with the Myer-Briggs Type Indicator, the personality assessment tool developed by Isabel Briggs Myers and her mother Katharine Cook Briggs, inspired by the work of Carl Jung.  I’ve found that by learning more about type – especially when one really studies the test and learns the types of his/her friends, loved ones, coworkers, etc – it can have an amazing effect on one’s perception of his or herself, the world and the people around us.  Isabel Myers’ famous book on the subject, Gifts Differing, is a must read for anyone interested in subject; reading it for the first time made me realize how much the results of a simple personality test can really help people find find themselves, interact better with others and develop in a way that is natural for their needs, instead of struggling to become something…

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Southeast Asia Part V: Southern Thailand, the Final Chapter

And at long last, the saga of our 2017 Asian adventure comes to an end.  I was intimidated at the prospect of first writing these entries, but I hope I’ve properly gotten across just how amazing southeast Asia really is. This was easily one of the most unbelievable trips my wife and I have ever been on, and we can’t wait to go back one day.

Before I get started, some catchup:

Southeast Asia Part I: Thailand

Southeast Asia Part II: Thailand

Southeast Asia Part III: Laos

Southeast Asia Part IV: Cambodia

So, after our travels in Cambodia, and with less than a few weeks left in our trip, we boarded a flight right to Phuket, the most famous island in Southern Thailand. Phuket is definitely the Los Angeles of Thailand. It’s huge, constantly moving, with a myriad of events taking place in any direction the eyes can see.

It’s highly commercialized, of course, far more than the rest of Thailand. It’s definitely a carnival, but still worth seeing, if only for the mesmerizing beaches.

From there, we then escaped to the shores of Ko Yao Noi. This remote little island, which has a 90% Muslim population, is one of the most amazing and beautiful places in Thailand. It’s quiet, simple, rural, with very little going on, and that’s the beauty of it. Veronica and I spent our time there riding around the island on a scooter, laying on hammocks at the beach, and loving the peacefulness of it all.

And of course, there’s always excellent coffee if you know where to find it. The scene pictured below, again on Ko Yao Noi, definitely qualifies for an updated list of Top Coffee Moments™. (you veteran readers of this blog will remember these Coffee Moments, as well as your top ones!)

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We felt so at home at Ko Yao Noi that it was heartbreaking to leave, but there were still adventures ahead. Most importantly, scuba diving off the coast of Ko Phi Phi.

This was my first time ever scuba diving, and I absolutely loved it. I have to admit, the first few moments were terrifying, but once I’d adjusted — thanks to the calm, relaxed training of my instructor —  it easily become one of the most fantastic experiences I’ve ever had. While I’d often imagined what scuba diving might be like — who hasn’t dreamed up seeing the mesmerizing coral reefs and sea creatures up close? — I’d never imagined the experience would be so calm and meditative. The focus on breathing, exhaling and inhaling at a slow and steady pace, puts one in a mental state very similar to meditation or yoga. Combine this with the unbelievable thrill of seeing blue starfish, moray eels, mountain ranges of coral, swimming through schools of fish, and even seeing a blacktip shark(!)… and, well, the whole thing was unforgettable.

Luckily, the ship had an underwater camera man on board.


After a few more days soaking up the sun, islands, and more, our time in Thailand finally came to an end. We finished the trip by heading back to Bangkok for our last few days, where we ate our final dinner at a restaurant with a fantastic view of the city, reminiscing on everything we’d seen and done.

And now, we come full circle, back to where I began — writing about the time period in which we first came back, which is when I started writing this series, and which now seems so long ago.


Thank you, all of you, who’ve continued reading this series from the beginning until now. After over a month of southeast Asia posts, next week will begin something new. As for what it is, who knows? We never know what stories the future holds for us.

Southeast Asia, Part IV: Cambodia

Southeast Asia Part I: Thailand

Southeast Asia Part II: Thailand

Southeast Asia Part III: Laos

The Kingdom of Cambodia is a country with many deep, significant differences from both Laos and Thailand, and a feel all its own. Once the center of the ancient Khmer Empire,  Cambodia spent much of the latter half of the twentieth century embroiled in bloody warfare, military coups, occupations, and so on, and some hints of these scars still show. Cambodia also  still suffers from widespread poverty, higher crime rates, child labor, and governmental corruption. There’s a visibly unfair disparity between classes, a noticeably wide gulf between the “haves” and the “have-nots” of society, with many people visibly struggling just to get by.

It’s a very raw country, but also one filled with much beauty, wonderful people, and fascinating centuries of history that show in every ancient temple, wall, and tree. It’s unlike anywhere else, and you can see how much the culture and the people has fought to survive against numerous hardships, and how strong they are.


Cambodia is absolutely a place worth visiting, but it’s definitely one for the experienced traveler. It’s not as easy or simple as getting around Thailand, and things are certainly more rugged, but there are lots of experiences to have. The people here are strong, resilient, the centuries of history pervade every corner, and the land itself is something unique.

Admittedly, we were only in Cambodia for a short time, so outside of Siem Reap, there’s still much of the country we didn’t get the chance to see on this trip — areas which may have their own individual feel, tone, and so on. But in any case, we began our trip by exploring Siem Reap itself, and the surrounding area.

The next day, we took a tuk-tuk to see one of Cambodia’s floating villages. In the wet season, these villages are literally right on the water. In the dry season, which is when we were visiting, they are simply elevated, as you can see below:

Finally, we did the big thing that most visitors to Cambodia do: we went to see Angkor Wat. This ancient temple complex, famously depicted on the Cambodian national flag, is truly a wonder to behold.

Angkor Wat is a UNESCO World Heritage Site, built in the 12th century in dedication to the Hindu god Vishnu. The sheer size and scale of Angkor Wat is truly unbelievable. You can’t properly capture it in photos, though we tried the best we could.

Other than Angkor Wat, there are many other temples around Siem Reap, each one quite remarkable. One of our favorites turned out to be Ta Prohm, a temple that has been overtaken by trees. It’s quite a dazzling, otherworldly sight; the trees are like alien creatures that have proven their dominance over man, by crawling over and entrapping these ancient walls. Amazing stuff.

Cambodia was quite different from Laos and Thailand, but that difference certainly made it stand out. It’s a place where history meets the present day. For those of us who have been born and raised in the world’s more privileged and “developed” countries, it’s really important to go to places like Cambodia — places which have struggled and survived through numerous traumatic events, and where people today experience hardships, poverty, and economic inequality on a level that few of us could even imagine. Without question, I’ll remember Cambodia for the rest of my life.

After that, we then flew back to Thailand, where we began the final leg of our journey: southern Thailand, which is a totally different land than the north. Next time up, it’s Southeast Asia Part V: The Final Chapter!

Huay Xai, Laos

Southeast Asia, Part III: Laos

Southeast Asia Part I

Southeast Asia Part II

Laos is similar to Thailand in many respects, but also quite different. Laos is calmer, quieter, more peaceful. It’s also much more rural, less developed. Laos is a country too often overlooked on many people’s trips to Southeast Asia, and it ended up being one of the highlights of our adventure.

After crossing the Friendship Bridge and going through immigration, we spent the rest of our first day in the village of Huay Xai, right on the Mekong River. Our plan was to then embark on the two-day slow boat cruise up to Luang Prabang, but since the boat left the next morning, we spent the rest of the day in Huay Xai. I’m glad it happened this way, because it ended up being a wonderful place to spend some time.

Huay Xai is small, quiet, and there isn’t much going on as far as activities, but don’t let that deter you from going there, and staying for a bit; if anything, it would have been nice to spend even longer there. The village is right across the river from Thailand, and while it’s definitely a border-town-in-the-way-that-border-towns-are-always-border-towns, it’s also wonderfully real, honest, and down to earth. There’s a lot of warmth to be found in Huay Xai, if you know where to look for it.

We ate dinner at the Dauww Village, a guest house and restaurant that doubles as the base of operations for the Kajsiab Intiative, an organization which provides women from Lao villages with a shop to sell their handmade products. Kadsiab also takes on interns from the local mountain villages, letting them work for the restaurant, and providing a place of shelter for any villagers in need, or for families of patients at the hospital. Visitors to the restaurant are also greeted with a pamphlet describing the many tribes in Laos, and the various cultures, in great detail. You can learn more about the Dauww Village here.

Unsurprisingly, the Dauww Village is a truly fantastic place. Immediately upon approaching, the stairs were covered with playing children. As the night went on, and we enjoyed a homemade pizza with some Beerlao, the families gathered around the firepit and hung out, traded jokes with one another, played instruments, and so on. These sorts of multicultural experiences are the thing that makes traveling so important. Cultural exchange. Human capital, instead of cold capitalism. Next time we make it out to Huay Xai, we’ll definitely want to stay at the Dauww Village for longer.

Huay Xai, Laos

The next morning, we set sail on the slow boat, a long wooden vessel that would be our bus for the next two days. The slow boat is the perfect illustration of both the wonder and the hilarity that intertwine themselves when one embarks on these journeys into other countries. While one might picture a luxurious affair, the reality is that the slow boat’s seats are actually just re-purposed car seats, and the boat itself was so overbooked and crowded that the next day, the passengers were split into two boats.

Don’t let this deter you: it’s a one of a kind experience, that every traveler should absolutely embark on. Seriously, it’s a blast. Everyone’s in it together. After a few hours of absorbing the jungle scenery around you, the musicians on board start playing, you start enjoying a Beerlao or two, and you end up with more stories than you could ever count.

What was additionally interesting to see is the way that the slow boat stopped every now and again at these tiny Lao villages in the middle of the jungle, where it would pick up a family, or a few individuals, and bring them to their destination further down the Mekong River. Very cool experience.

The boat docked at the town of Pakbeng for the first night, where we got dinner, got drinks at the “Happy Bar,” and then crashed, in order to get up early the next morning. The next day on the boat was similar to the first, though a further sense of peacefulness began to truly sink in. There’s something magical about having those hours of time to be alone with your thoughts, in a sense; able to journal, think, watch nature around you.

Finally, we stopped in Luang Prabang, where we spent the rest of our time in Laos. Luang Prabang is the cultural capitol of the country, though not the official capitol, and it’s certainly a city that everyone should take a chance to see. It’s small and more rural, like Laos itself, but possesses a certain unique charm that’s hard to describe. The art, culture, and surroundings are unmistakably Lao, in a way where when you are there, you know you’re not anywhere else in the world.

Of course, we had to stop and get coffee along the way, as is often the case when a certain coffee-obsessed writer goes traveling. The drink in the following image is called a Gibraltar, made with rice milk. Highly recommended.

Nicholas Conley Laos coffee Luang Prabang


We also went up to the Kuang Si waterfall, a place of such unmistakable beauty and such dazzling waters that it feels like a different world.

Our time in Laos was truly a highlight of the whole trip, in a huge way, but since we had other stops to make, it eventually had to come to an end. After that, we picked up a plane ticket to Siem Reap, Cambodia, where we would soon see the magnificent sights of Angkor Wat.