True Tales Live: “Day One” (Video)

This past month, I was honored with the opportunity to appear on the second season premiere of the local NH television program, True Tales Live.  As with the True Tales radio program that preceded it, True Tales Live seeks to give storytellers the opportunity to share actual stories from their life.

For this episode of True Tales Live, I shared my story, “Day One,” where I delve back into my early days working in a nursing home, as a nursing aide on a longterm care unit, and how that experience changed my views, my perception, and my way of trying to be there for other people.

Though the series can be watched on local TV in the NH area, everyone else can check it out here on the official True Tales YouTube! My section begins around 46:50, in the video below:

 

Other storytellers in this episode include Arnie Alpert, Emilie Spaulding, Gail Licciardello, Joanne Piazzi, and Annette Slattery. Definitely worth watching, and to everyone behind the scenes, thank you for putting this program together.

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Alzheimers.net: “Why I Wrote a Novel about Alzheimer’s”

Nicholas Conley - Pale Highway

Nicholas Conley

In the image above, you can see a younger version of me. A bit less scruffy, wearing my scrubs. In physical years, this picture was taken just a few years ago, but in my mind a lifetime has passed since those days. Back when this picture was taken, I was still working fulltime at the job that would one day inspire Pale Highway.

The people who I took care of back then have remained with me, forever becoming a part of my inspiration to be who I am, do everything I do, and help people whenever I’m able to.

On that note, I’m posting today to announce that I have a new feature up on the official blog of Alzheimers.net, an amazing online community that seeks to educate, advocate and support those with dementia. In my article, I answer a question that many have asked me in the last few months: why I wrote a novel about Alzheimer’s.

Pale Highway - Nicholas Conley - Alzheimer's

Pale Highway – Nicholas Conley – Alzheimer’s

To truly care for someone with Alzheimer’s disease, one must first understand them as a human being, and give them the freedom to be who they are without fear of judgment. Through experience, I learned to be there for the residents of the nursing home, to talk to them about their life stories even when the stories got mixed up, to hold the hands of people who were dying, and take care of them until the end. Working in a nursing home, Alzheimer’s is something I became familiar with. Understanding the quirks, the common trends, the progression… to a caregiver, all of this becomes second nature. When someone reaches those later stages, having a good caregiver is more important than I can possibly express.

Thanks to all of you for giving it a read, and a big thank you to everyone who has already finished reading Pale Highway, and taken the time to tell me your thoughts and feelings about the book. I can’t even express how fantastic it is to hear this feedback, and it absolutely makes my day every time sometime talks to me about their impressions of the story.

For those of you who are still awaiting the release of the paperback, don’t worry!  It’ll be here next week.

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In other news, the Pale Highway blog tour has been proceeding fantastically! I’ve been interviewed by Lisa Haselton, as well as Live Laugh & Love Books. I’ve also been honored by a wonderful review from Ste J of Book to the Future, who says the following:

With a growing elderly population, this book serves as not only a character study on one man’s fight against his own mind and body but also to highlight the continuing need to help the older generation and try to understand before it is our turn.

And finally, to round it all off, I also have a guest post up on BigAl’s Books & Pals, where I discuss a certain moment in my nursing home experience that made a deep impact on me:

Working second shift in a nursing home, the last half hour is when exhaustion finally sets in. After eight hours—or often in my case, sixteen hours—of working with all of the residents, racing from call bell to call bell, and getting everybody comfortably settled in bed, this is the point where the workers can finally sit down for a moment and finish documenting about the events of the day. It’s also the moment where the body’s aches and strains finally make themselves apparent. The lights are off, most of the residents are asleep, and everyone is getting ready for the overnight crew to come in with bags under their eyes, and tall cups of gas station coffee gripped in shaky hands.